Duisekeyeva E.
The author of the book
is Duisekeyeva Elmira – a psychologist, a specialist in the field of crisis
state, NLP, smile-meditation and twist-therapy.
First of all this book
is the result of self-improvement, during the course of at least fifteen years.
These were years of truth and happiness search. When a man’s life has a
favourable current, he follows this current and nothing worries him or her. The
waves of blesses carry him in the life space, avoiding acute angles and
underwater hidden stones-obstacles. Like this was my life till a definite
moment. But once life put me into severe frames, called life trials and difficulties.
Then I had as a minimum two ways: to leave everything as it is and to continue it
or to change the attitude to this and undertake steps and actions, that in the
end will bring success in life. There is a saying: “God tests us according to
our strength”. A question arose: Why has it happened to me? What for? All these
years I was looking for the answers to these questions. Books and people were
my teachers.
We live in a surprising
time. This is the time when anyone can selfrealize themselves and see that
really a man is the crown of creation, a true creator of his happiness, his
fate. One must only desire! Real desire is the first condition.
The second condition –
desire must be followed by actions, because no pain, no gain.
You will learn how to do
it having read my book. Only:
1. It’s necessary to want to change your life.
2. To turn and to make steps toward these changes,
Lao-Tzu said, than a
thousand mile road starts with a first step. Make this step.
This book-training is
about not to build happiness in general and female’s happiness, in particular.
This is a training of personal growth.
The book is written in
the form of the author’s talk with the reader. It has practical exercises and
meditative techniques, that allow the reader to meet himself, his feeling, his
demands.
In Chapter 1 the reader
meets his inner child, faces the problem of choice, adapts at happiness, luck
and fortune.
In chapter 2 the reader
meets his own world of feelings and thoughts.
In chapter 3 the reader
meets the secrets of a happy marriage are revealed.
In chapter 4 the power
of absolute (unconditional) love is opened.
Chapter 5 considers the
mechanism of reality creation and transition from negative scenarios of life to
positive, happy ones.
In this book I retold:
“The divine fairy-tale”
and the story of Olga Gumirova
“Whom you call is
exactly who comes” from the “Book for parents” from the series “Learn the
truth” (book VIII) – Almaty, 2005, p. 123,133.
All the rest is a
synthesis of knowledge from many original sources (among them are S. Lazarev,
A. Sviyash, D. Veritshagin, V. Dolohov and V. Gurangov, M. Norbekov, Liz Burbo,
Radzhish Osho, Satya Sai Baba, P. Kuelyo. Dzh. Keho, Mark and Elizabeth Claire
Profet, Dipak Chopra, Pak Dzhi Vu and others), personal experience and practice.
Dear readers!
Do not hesitate to
contact us: e-mail: happiness.28li08@rambler.ru
I address this book to
women, though it will be useful for men as well. Why to women? Firstly because
I am a woman. And secondly, because I work mainly with women.
What this book is about?
Possibly, it is about woman’s happiness. This book is about how to create a
woman’s happiness. I succeeded to do this. The woman with whom I worked became
happier. What is a “woman’s happiness”? The author doesn’t pretend to be the
only prophet in this field. The pages of the book reflect the thoughts,
meditations and the view of the author. The reader is free to agree or to
disagree with what they read. But I am sure that many of my thoughts will make
you think about many things, to see the other side of the coin, called “Woman’s
happiness”.
Woman’s happiness is a
woman’s soul state. Somebody of the greatest people said “Happiness is the
soul’s state”. Think how embracing this saying is “Happiness is the soul’s
state” … What is a “soul”? What is a “state”? I think the
emotionally-psychological aspect of a human being is meant and what does this
notion include? Emotions and feelings that the man experiences since the moment
of conception. There is an opinion that a person is born to be happy in this
world. To be happy himself and to make the surrounding people happy. I also
share this opinion. But is this really so radiant? If it were so, there would
be
Then why do we struggle
for material welfare? Why do we struggle for a place under the Sun? To be
happy. Maybe. But there is an opinion, that the rich ones also cry and suffer.
So what is a man’s happiness? Possibly the one who said “Happiness is the
soul’s state” was right.
Happiness is a capacious
word, embracing many feeling, notions, states and sufferings. We talk about
happiness when we experience pleasant joyful feelings and emotions. People of
any status and position to describe happiness use approximately similar words.
Not accidentally it is said that all happy families are like each other and
every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. So are the people: look like
each other in happiness, and unhappy in their own way.
To come to the
understanding of what happiness is and how to become happy, I suggest to start
with the opposite. When does a person realize that he is unhappy? I think when
there are problems. They may be various: health problems, family ones, problems
of spouses, financial, generation “fathers and children”, choice, career choice
and others. There is one more problem, may be it is a planetary problem –
loneliness. This is what “poisons” one’s life. A question arises: how to live
and how to struggle with this? What is the reason that we so tragically
perceive the above–mentioned events?
Numerous versions exist,
describing the reasons in the consequence of which a man can be unhappy to
begin with religious – philosophy ones and to finish with those purely personal
ones of trials and mistakes that is in an empirical way.
I suggest the reader
another approach to this issue. Firstly the word “problem” from French means an
unsolved issue. Practically every mathematical problem has its decision and sometimes
even several. So let’s solve issues that life brings. After all what is life?
Life is the school where we grow, learn, pass exams and move from any social
niche into another one, taking those vacancies for which we passed the
competition selection.
Secondly any situation
in our life is the result of choices made by us earlier. The matter is, that
our world is a space of probabilities. Or in other words the world is
multiprobable. There are time choices. Do you remember the fairy-tale: if you
go to the right – you will find wealth, if to the left – you will lose your
horse, if straight forward – you will perish? So it is in our life: every hour,
every minute we make a lot of choices. We make them unconsciously without
thinking where our choice will take us. That is why I suggest you to live
consciously, that means before you do something think a little about the
consequences of your choice.
Thirdly citing the
classical writer “life is given to us only once and one has to live it so that
not to feel pain for the wasted years”. Only I put into these words another
meaning, because when we feel pain we are unhappy. Or on the contrary, we are
unhappy when we feel awful pain. Many of us live as if tomorrow we can start
the life anew, as if we are writing the draft of our life fair copy. No, my
dear, there will never be such a possibility. Every day we weave the canvas of
our life where every moment is an unrepeated design. What will this canvas be
at the end of life – a unique masterpiece or trivial mediocrity depends on the
person himself.
Do not believe into your
imperfection. Do not believe that we depend on circumstances. Do not believe
that the world is only for the selected ones. This is not true. The truth is in
that a Man is originally born for happiness. And he knows about this from the
very moment he comes to this world. Only then the environment makes him forget
completely about this under the hypnosis of a myth that everyone must follow
certain rules created by the socium. Under this influence the man forgets what
and who he is, why he has come to this world and so he becomes a tiny creature,
a small screw of the system, gets lost in the crowd of similar screws. So the
impression is created that the world is for only selected ones. Here we try to
belong to these very selected ones, starting the race called life. We create idols
for us and try to be like them, who have already occupied a worthy place under
the Sun, forgetting themselves. Every person is unique. Only we have forgotten
about our uniqueness. I suggest you to recollect this.
CHAPTER 1.
By birth we all are from
childhood. No matter what everyone’s childhood was like we all believed into
magic, fairies and wizards. But growing we have forgotten about this. Each one
of us had their own fairy land where all wishes and dreams came true. Children
are pure. Every child is an individuality, a person. Every child is a whole
world with its laws, harmonizing with the laws of Worldcreation. Every child is
harmonious which means he is happy. The child’s world from the moment of birth
is his mother. And only a happy mother can bring up a happy child.
There is a parable, a
not yet born child asked the God:
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Tomorrow I must be born,
but so small and helpless how will I live?
The Creator said:
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There on Earth an angel,
chosen by me, is waiting for you to take care of you.
The Child asked:
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Oh, Lord, here in the Heavens I have nothing
to do to be happy only to sing and to laugh. And how will I live on the Earth?
To this God
answered:
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Your angel will every day
rejoice and sing for you. He will tell you the most wonderful words ever heard
and will teach you to pronounce them.
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And if I want to talk to
You?
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Your angel will twiddle
your thumbs and teach you to pray.
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But bad people are said
to be on the Earth. Who will protect me?
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Your angel will do this
even if it threatens him.
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But I will miss You
always.
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Your angel will talk
with you about Me. I will be always beside you.
It was very quiet
and light in the heavens at that moment. The child hurriedly asked:
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Oh, Lord! Is it time to
leave You? Please tell me my angel’s name.
The God said:
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Names are meaningless.
You will call the angel “Mother”.
Mother for the child is peace, protection, care and love, everything the
tiny man needs for happiness. Children believe that their demands are always
satisfied. And they are happy.
Why did I start to speak of demands? To my mind some of us live to meet
their demands. The others satisfy their demands to live or in other words some
live to work, others work to live. You can make a conscious choice: to live to
satisfy your demands or to satisfy your demands to live.
A theory of demands exists – Maslow pyramid. The author suggests to
consider the standard of man’s life from the level of his demands being
satisfied. Let’s analyze these demands to the extent that it grows:
1. Demand in survival means that we must eat, drink, dress. What can bring
the man to death? Hunger, thirst, absence of warmth. This is the most important
before the man starts to satisfy his higher demands.
2. Demand in safety supposes protection against disease and harm, from
everything that can cause man’s death.
3. Social demands – demands in love and respect, feeling of belonging,
accept us as we are.
4. Demand in acknowledgment, that means self-respect, status, image, authority.
5. Demand in self-realization – self-development, self-actualization,
internal growth.
These demands satisfaction of the small child depends on his mother.
There is a saying: little children – little problems. I do not agree with this
because a colossal breakthrough happens from birth till three years: the child
learns to find his way in the environment, learns to walk, to talk, to
communicate. The little child gets to know the world. What world will his
mother show him? Will this world be filled with happiness and joy or will it be
gray and sad, full of bitterness and sadness?
The child looks at the world through parents’ outlook prism. The way
your child will see this world depends only on you. Huge work of soul is
required from you for the child’s protection, care, affection and the most
important love. All five demands of a small human being are met: it is fed,
dressed, protected from diseases and dangers, it is loved unconditionally only
because it is and exists. The child grows and develops. Yes, so everything
goes, but … as the child grows we set requirements to it, not always reasonable
ones. We cease to love children unconditionally. We say:
I will love you if …
Then a long list of the requirements is unfolded to the child: what it must
or must not do TO DESERVE our love. By this action we limit the child’s social
demand. The further the more: we begin to limit the children in everything,
enumerating a lot of “it is not allowed”. We scold the children, or may even
beat them, by this we perform an action of physical and moral violence
humiliating our children. So we kill in children the feeling of their own
dignity, destroy their demand in acknowledgement. And as if a natural result
the demand in self-realization – the demand of self realization satisfying
loses validity. Thus we with our own hands make “grey” screws of personalities.
We suffer and worry, dooming our children to suffering and pain. We show the
children that picture of the world, that we have seen ourselves, being children.
Can a person who doesn’t know what ice-cream is tell others about it? No, he
can not. To bring up a happy man, the tutor has to be happy himself.
So it turns out that at the beginning we have to become happy ourselves.
A child lives inside everyone of us. Our internal child remembers everything.
These are we adults with already formed own outlook, habits, opinions have
forgotten about that once we were children, may be happy ones or possibly not
very happy ones. We have forgotten our child joys and sorrows, though exactly
these joys and sorrows made us what we are now.
Once I happened to see a scene: 3-4 year old children were brought by
the parents for the rehearsal to the Dance Club. Usually the parents wait for
the end of the rehearsal in the lounge to take the little gifted children home.
The mother of one of them left for some time and exactly then her child went at
to drink water. Not seeing his mother the child started to cry and look for the
mother, for this he got a reprimand. Reprimand is a very soft word for this. It
was a long tirade, as a result of which the child got the feeling of shame and
disgrace. But what, actually happened? The child went to the corridor and
didn’t see his mother. The child believed that it was lost. For him this event
was a tragedy. Maybe the whole world collapsed, after all he has not found the
dearest man, the basis of his small world. And instead of understanding and
consolation he got the feeling of shame and fault. And the feeling of guilt!
generates the necessity to be punished, compensating sins. We tell children
that it is a shame to be afraid, to cry, to be weak, but we don’t bring up in
our children the strength of spirit and maturity. The great teacher Makarenko
said that upbringing must be based on a personal experience. How strong and
mature are we ourselves? I suggest to research this issue.
Let’s accept that each one of us has an inner child, I suggest to meet
it. Imagine that you go by an express train to take you to the station
“Childhood”. There are various classes of carriages: for VIP, compartment,
carriage with reserved seats. What carriage do you take? Would you feel
comfortable in this carriage? I ask you to be honest to yourself, because only
you know about this. Find a carriage where you will feel comfortable. This is
important to define how ready you are to accept goods to which you strive. So
the train leaves. Behind the windows pictures of your life flash, reminiscences
come to you. You go to the meeting with your past. What is your past like? Whatever
it was it is your Past and it will not change already.
It is Your past and it exactly made you what you are at present with all
your good and bad features. Now the train slows down. We approach the place of
destination. The station is “Childhood”.
A child meets you at the platform. This is you. The very girl or boy,
you were many years ago. Come nearer and greet it. What is it like – your inner
child? What does it look like? How is it dressed? What associations does it
cause? What reminiscences came with him to the meeting with you? What are its
needs you want to satisfy now? Talk to him and he will reveal you many
mysteries, that he preserved for the meeting with you all these years. He can
tell you about his distresses and sorrows, about what he really needs, what he
really is short of. What do you want to do now, when you have learnt his
secret? Possibly he will convey you an awful mystery how he was frightened by
an angry dog and ran away, and then everybody laughed at him calling him a
coward. But may be at that moment he couldn’t behave in another way, satisfying
his need in protection. When he was teased he was imposed the feeling of shame
and guilt, and since then he is afraid to get into a silly state not to be
laughed at. This feeling of guilt brings him into such situations, where he is
punished because after all he is guilty. The feeling of shame forces him to become
invisible, to be like everybody and the child loses his individuality. He is
ashamed to turn somebody’s attention to him because he can be laughed at. What
more mysteries will your inner child tell you? You will learn about it – only
you.
Today you have made a great discovery – you got acquainted with your
inner child. You have learnt his mysteries, his demands. You have learnt at
what step your child had stopped to help to reach the highest stage – self
realization. Now it is necessary to help your inner child to grow, to become
strong and mature.
And what does it mean to become strong? One of the wise men said “Only a
strong man can bow, a weak one can’t do this”. How do you understand this
wisdom? I understand it so: a strong
person is the one who isn’t afraid to display his weakness: to cry when it is
sad, to laugh when it is funny, sincerely be sorry and to live through mutually
somebody’s grief that means to be oneself, not being afraid to be laughed at.
Pay attention to small children – they are naturall all the time until we have
learnt them to stimulate to correspond to the system. When a man has the luxury
to be himself he is happy. Remember when you were little children and become
real ones.
A mature personality is the one that can behave consciously in any
situation adequately to this situation. Here we approach the problem of choice.
I have already mentioned the all our life is the result of choices made by us.
One can make a choice to behave like a child, putting the responsibility on
others and becoming a victim in this situation. Can a victim be happy? Or can
one make a conscious choice, taking the responsibility for the result. If it
succeeds – it will be good, it if doesn’t succeed there will be nobody to
blame, instead a valuable experience is acquired. What do you want to be: a
victim, in the circumstances or the master of the situation? What is your
choice? Maybe you feel comfortable blaming the whole world, pretending to be a
victim. But this is also your choice. Then everything depends on what how you
are doing this. If you scold and curse then you are a rebellion. If you cry on
somebody’s shoulder you are a moaner. Sorry for being rude. But in both cases
you do not take the responsibility upon yourself: somebody is always guilty.
Besides if you meekly stand all difficulties that fell to the lot of you, don’t
even repine against – this is also sacrifice. And it is also sad.
But one can struggle with difficulties and remain simultaneously an
optimist. That causes respect. A question arises: Are you happy in such
situation? Everything depends on the model of your picture of the world. What
picture of the world do you support? Through what prism do you look at the
world? To my mind the above-mentioned models have one common peculiarity: you
have to struggle with the world constantly.
You will not be the winner in this struggle, because the world is large.
Why to struggle with windmills? May be it is better to agree peacefully? To
become harmonious with it? And how? We need to be learnt by our children.
Having understood you inner child and having looked at the world through
his eyes, you’ll make one more important discovery for you: the world is
beautiful and has everything for everybody. Then the world will open its
embraces for you and will give you everything needed for you happiness.
Ask yourself a question “What do I really need to become happy?”
For me to become happy means to devote myself to a favourite work, to
have a family, to see my children happy, I want to be healthy. Money? I will
come as in addition to all those goods, that life presents me. I need money to
satisfy my needs. What else is there necessary for you to be happy?
Your inner child can prompt you what is you favourite business. Ask him
what does he like to do, what brings him joy and pleasure? Remember, what did
you dream to become in childhood, how did you imagine your future? How close
you are now to your child’s dreams? Do you have a hobby? Is that what you like
to do in free time? You should know that hobbies help to make money, good
money.
I know a woman who likes to knit and sew. Becoming unemployed the woman
started to sew for other people. The further the more: foreign designers saw
her work and invited her to cooperate. Now this ex-unemployed woman is a
business lady.
The son of a poor man in one church wrote a composition at school about
his dream to become the richest man. The teacher gave him the mark
“unsatisfactory”. How can a son of a poor man dream of wealth? The boy asked
the teacher to take the unsatisfactory mark and return his dream. It was Bill
Gates – the richest man in the world.
Let dream enter your life. Dreams happen and magic turns up. Calculate
the miracles, that have been in your life. Miracles happen, but do not consider
that the best and bright in our life – is God’s gift. All good is perceived by
us as something granted. Our memory
keeps difficulties and misfortunes. This is what we remember well. It is like
in an anecdote: I am not unforgiving only life is frightful and my memory is
good. But now you have a chance to correct everything: make a choice – to
remember all the bad or count all the
miracles that have happened in your life. And one more miracle will happen.
The matter is that the brain is unique. It operates as if it were the best
world computer. Now, having made the choice and tuned in the favour of miracle,
you will reprogramme your computer on perception and attraction into your life
everything you dream about for yourself and your dear ones.
To attract favourable circumstances in your life, it is necessary to
tune in a favourable wave. We said the world has many probabilities. There are
positive and negative scenarios of your life in the world. Till this moment
your brain was tuned in on the acceptance of negative scenarios, otherwise you
wouldn’t read these lines. Only the bad is remembered by the brain. I have gone
through this – this way. But once I realized that it is useless to blame a
mirror. Life gave me presents, but I didn’t notice them. And this was my choice. One always can return to the
cross-road, think and make a new choice. I began to count the miracles, that
have been in my life.
The greatest miracle in a person’s life is the miracle of his birth.
Your coming to this world is a miracle. Many explanations can support my
statement, starting from the point of medicine and finishing with
philosophical, religious and esoteric ones. For example only one of thousands
of sperm cells fertilized ovum from which our body developed. You may have not
been born because of abortion, etc. From the point of view of esoterics very
many souls wait for embodiment for hundred of years to create favourable
conditions to realize certain goals of the given soul. At the end your parents couldn’t
meet each other. So isn’t it a miracle – your being on this planet?
Calculate all miracles, that happened in your life. Count! Perceive these miracles and thank life for these gifts. By this you
will inform the world that you are grateful and ready to accept other gifts of
the fate. So you will reprogramme your brain to attract happiness into your
life. You will tell the world that you have finished the senseless struggle
with it. Open your embraces to the world, and the world with joy will take you
into its embraces, giving all the necessary for you. You have to understand that the world is a mirror,
that reflects our thoughts, opinions and beliefs. See, into a what mirror you look
and you will learn what is necessary to change and to improve.
Yes, work is needed, the more valuable your happiness will be. What
comes easily is easily lost. What is given free, is not highly appreciated.
Let’s start to build our happiness right now and you’ll become the co-creator of the Lord. You will become
the master of your life. To build your happiness, you have already laid a solid
basis:
1. You have made a choice to be the creator of your happiness and not be a
strange observer of how life flows and is wasteless.
2. You will meet with your inner child. This is also very important because
according to psychologists’ opinion sacrificiality is born in childhood.
3. Having learnt the needs and demands of your inner child, you have
understood on what demands hierarchy step your inner child has stopped. And
what to do to help him to find love, respect, acknowledgment to self realize.
4. You have tuned yourself on luck, happiness and good fortune having
calculated the miracles, given by the life.
5. You have learnt what negative thoughts, opinions, outlook and beliefs
are reflected in your mirror of the world. Look attentively what the world
shows you. Be honest to yourself, because this is your life, your happiness.
It’s your choice.
Congratulations!
CHAPTER 2.
We have built the
foundation of your happiness. What is ahead? There is a view, that if there is
health – there will be everything. I also share this view, moreover I support
it. What does a man need to be healthy? Both physical and psychological health
is needed. People say nerves are reasons of all diseases. I state that the main
cause is the brain.
Thoughts and beliefs of
a man create a certain matrix of health
or bad health of the man. Thought is what is our brain. Thoughts are
results of our feelings and emotions. Feeling and emotions appear, when the man
perceives the reality surrounding him. And what is this reality like? The
reality is neutral. It doesn’t bear any emotional colouring. The
reality is neither good not bad. Only man can give emotional colouring to a
certain manifestation of the surrounding world. Any event in our life is neutral by itself. Only we, people give
to all the events a positive or negative
meaning. For example, rain. Rain is a nature phenomenon, with no emotional colouring.
Do you remember the song “Has the nature bad weather”? But we all in various
time depending on age and circumstances refer to it differently. For example,
in childhood we like to splash over the puddles, experiencing by this a whole
range of positive feelings and
emotions. Our mothers scolded us for the wet, dirty clothes and footwear. In
youth we liked to walk in the rain.
Then rain was evoking romantic mood. When we go to the country for a picnic
rain spoils it to us. We are disappointed, we are in bad mood, our plans
collapse. And rheumatism is the disease that “doesn’t like” damp weather at
all. But farmers and summer residents wait for rain to get a good harvest. In
ancient times there even were magicians
of rain, that were calling rain in droughty seasons of the year to save the
crops and pastures.
So all the events and
phenomena in our world are neutral. Only
the man gives some significance to everything in this world: positive or negative
significance. Make a choice, how will
you perceive the reality: positively or negatively. The first step for this
is:
to learn how you really
describe your reality?
Be honest to yourself.
Someone may feel irritated that I often cite the phrase: “Be honest to yourself”. But this is also a problem of choice. What
will be the result of our communication depends on this.
If you are sly, you will deceive yourself – because this is YOUR LIFE. If you are maximally honest and sensitive to yourself, the results will overwhelm all your expectations. It is impossible – all are bad,
only I am good. Well, it just can’t be …
It is very difficult to be honest to yourself, but once we have done it, we
take the responsibility for our happiness. We become masters of our life. And
this is also your choice. This is very important, because everything depends on
what the main background of your life
is positive or negative. From this
depends our future cooperation or will throw away the book, meaning not to deal
with me. Your health depends on this.
The matter is that in
the East a person’s feelings are directly being linked with his health. For instance, our wounded feelings are in the liver, our hidden anger in the gall-bladder,
female problems are linked with sense
of injuries caused by male half of
the humanity.
In no way do I call upon
to refuse from official health care,
what I do – I call upon you to perceive yourself.
In applied kinesiology – a science,
one of the branches of official medicine the basis is that a person’s health is
a system. The health triangle is an equally-sided triangle, where one side is presented
by our organs (skeleton, muscles, internal organs): this is the structure. The second side of the
triangle is chemistry – all biochemical process, taking place in the
body of a man. The third side is mentality – all our emotions and feelings. If
a person is ill, deformation takes place, the health triangle stops to be
equally-sided. Medicine works both with “structure” and “chemistry”. “Psycho” –
“psychosomatics” is the field of the work of psychologists. Eastern medicine
and philosophy through all these notions restore the man’s health. I call upon
you to be maximum sensitive and attentive
to yourself. Only you know about all fears, worries, disappointments and offence.
Only you can find positive emotions and feelings resourceful for you.
Everything is in your hands.
There are many health
systems: H.Norbekov’s system, systems of Malakhov, Semyonova, Vostokov,
teaching about positive thinking by L.Hay, Liz Burbo, yoga practice, breathing
exercises, of Strelnikova, methods of mental purifying breath, etc. all the
health methods work. They are presented by training groups and in books. The
choice is yours! I just suggest you
to perceive that if many have done, so you will be able to do it as well. Where
there is a wish, there is a will, in fact everything is in your hands. And this is also your choice.
In addition to this a
very important organ in the body is the spine.
I consider that the spine is the basis of health, because inside the spinal
column is spinal cord is situated. It gives the information from the brain to
the organs and systems of the body. If there are deformations, displacements in
the structure of the spinal column obstacles will appear at the signal
transmission. The information is either blocked or twisted. Nutrition and
innervation of the organ is broken and this causes diseases. When one has
scoliosis (pathologically twists of the spine) other problems appear as well –
the deformation of the chest and pelvis, leading to shifting of internal
organs, which also leads to various diseases development. For example, at thoracic
spine curvature the deformation of chest takes place. Inside the chest above
the diaphragm are the vital organs – the heart and the lungs. When the chest is
deformed, these organs are deformed and dislocated. The lungs stop to function
completely. There is no breath in and breath out. The volume of coming with the
air oxygen decreases. As this volume is necessary for all biochemical
processes, the functioning of all the body is broken. There are also other
complications as a result of scoliosis. That’s why it is very important to keep
the spine healthy.
Besides the esoterics
confirm that a healthy spine is a
guarantee of a happy and successful life. Firstly approximately along the
spine the main energetic channels flow: up
going and down going currents giving the life forces according to the
esoterics. Secondly remember successful people. What a posture have they?
Shoulders are straight, the back is upright. These people easily put great
goals for themselves and easily reach them. A stooping man produces another
impression, doesn’t he? He looks for protection as if hiding from life
problems. His shoulders are tiredly stooped because of unbearable life burden.
That’s why you have to pay attention to your spine. If you have problems with
in, go to a specialist, start recreative gymnastics. This will help you to
recover health and become more successful.
Through invigoration,
dear women, rejuvenation will come. Take
care of yourself, love yourself! Working at your emotions, you’ll help your
body. No creams will help you to overcome wrinkles if not to eliminate the
reasons. And the reason lives inside us. If you put the artery pressure at the
standard level the wrinkles on the bridge of the nose will disappear. Having
cured the gall-bladder, you’ll “say good-bye” to goose-feet around the eyes. After
all the unrealized anger lives in the gall-bladder. How many times in your life
did you reserve yourself and “swallowed” your anger? How many times couldn’t
you answer an offender?